Tuesday, July 6, 2010

COMMON CAUSES OF DIVORCE IN MARRIAGE

DIVORCE: Simply, means the legal dissolution of a marriage contract by a competent law court or legal authority. This very subject, which has been on the rise especially in the western countries, is been regarded as a monster living amongs several
homes today. Its very disheartenning seeing once a peaceful, joyful and loving homes reduced to shrodes by this avoidable "virus' which has eaten into our marrows.

I called it AVOIDABLE, because its manageable since it is cause by the humans themselves. Every divorce has a human face in it. Divorce don`t just happen, it is a man made. When we neglets our primary family duties, we are sending an invitation to divorce. Our inability to manage or handle little family pressing issues, sometimes, gives birth to divorce. http://freakonomics.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/10/13/what-is-going-on-with-marriage/

Greed, unneccessary suspision, lack of understanding, excessive demanding without considering how the other partner is affacted, are some of the factors which leads to divorce.
Marriage, a relationship between two people who agree to share things together, can only survive if the couples involve adopts the three pillars of ( Cs,+ 1 pillar of U). No marriage can say to be beautiful, solid, or on a strong foundation without this three C +U.
A: COMMUNICATION
B: COMMITMENT
C: COMPROMISE
D: UNDERSTANDING

COMMUNICATION: Comunication, which is the exchange of information between people, is the number one thing that brings couples together. Whether in a marriage or any type of relationship, staying in communication with each other enlivens their relationship. Communication is important in relationship because it helps couple knows each others feelings or problems, as well as discuss their likes and dislikes.
In a relationship where there are communication break-down, there is every tendency that that relationship is heading towards break-up=(DIVORCE). How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together

COMMITMENT: As a resposibilities, is something that takes up time, or energy, especially an obligation =in a family commitments.. As a loyalty, is a devotion, or dedication (e.g) to a cause, person, or relationship.-Encarta World English Dictionary
Lack of commitment is one of the factors marriages rock. Thousands of marriages have broken up because the spouses are not committed to their marriage vows, or family duties. You need to be truly committed to your marriage vows, as well as your family duties in other to avoid the dangers of divorce in your marriage.

COMPROMISE:  To compromise is to make a deal where someone gives up part of , or all of its demands.=en.wikipadea.org. Compromise is one thing to make your relationship healthy. No one is perfect, sometimes our actions can be hurtful to others.Relationship Book : Stop Your Divorce and Save Your Marriage NOW! - Imagine No More Fighting!...

 The families are not left out. A partner could do something unhealthy in their relationship, or do something wrong to each other, but the ability to reach for a compromise is all they needed in other to forge ahead as one indivisible partners. Without compromise, you can never get on well in your marriage. Compromise shows that you need to foegive and torelate your partner for the well-being of your marriage.

UNDERSTANDING: Understanding, which is define as the ability to grasp meaning, the ability to perceive and explain the meaning or the nature of somebody or something=en.encarta english dictionary, is one of the most needed tools to building a smooth, joyful, peaceful and lovely relationship. With understading, you`ll be able to know when to say "YES,or NO", to every problems. Understanding enables you to give up to your numerous demands. Understandable partners does not always remain rigid in demands or decisions.

Therefore, if you want to save your marriage from imminent destruction, you don`t have to be too rigid or selfish in your decision making. Find out whether your partner is in a position to meet or provide your demand. Over bearing demands could make your partner disappointed, as well as loose confidence in you.
You can save your relationship from colapsing by not allowing some family issues remained unresoved over a period of time. Sometimes, you need to copromise.

Begin your new day with lots of understanding, love and affection for each other. With this, the stability of your marriage, and the burring of every marriage forces, are assured. Remember, lack of understanding, commitment, compromise, and the ability to communicate effectively with each other can reck =DIVORCE your marriage.
I implore you to make a wise decision today in other to save your marriage going down the ocean. Divorce is not your primary aim of engaging in that relationship, and its not healthy for any reason. Give up to that demand you prides in. Make your home=relationship beautiful for other to cherish.
Thank you.
Steve.uka.

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